"...that's about right for someone your age"

I heard this (directed at me) for the first time this week. Maybe I've had it said to me before, but certainly not in this context - that I am hitting aging milestones.

I went to the dentist Monday (there's a whole other back story to that), for a regular cleaning and checkup. I've been having problems for a while with a tooth that has been sensitive and occasionally get things caught in the gums. I was a little concerned that it might be a cavity.

Fortunately it wasn't, only that the dentin has become a little worn and chipped, thus prompting the statement, "That's about right for someone your age."

I had figured that phrase would come up sooner than later, but I was thinking a few years, not weeks, after my 30th birthday. I realize it's not THAT big of a deal, but with other things going on in my life and in the church, I do wonder about some of the arbitrary parameters we create based on chronological deficiency.

I go back and forth about the whole "under 35" focus for clergy in the Conference. I appreciate the confidence, but at the same time, resent the assumption that just because someone is under a certain age that means that churches will automatically begin to grow. That's not just a lot of pressure, but also discredits any real gifts and talents for ministry for a person of any age.

Regardless, I'm entering a new stage in life whether I like it or not. I've got a feeling posts may come even more regularly as a result.